No thing, no one, no places will make you happy.
I know that you already read about this but somwhere, but here is quick other perception, which maybe will make you to thought about it diffrent, and then maybe you will make diffrent choices. We will see.
What it’s all about. Chasing new things, new car, new iphone. Travel to new places. Reading new books. Meeting new people. Having better body, more muscular more slim. Having better results, acheiving success.
We think that when we achive this dream or that goal then we will be happy. But the truth is we won’t. And we know that. Subconciously we protect ourself. We sabotage ourself because we dont want to see the truth.
In one hand we lie to ourself and think that when we will be rich, then we will be happy.
But in other hand deep inside we know that it isnt true
So we self-sabotage.
(i know that you probably dont agree with me so keep reading)
We self-sabotage because we know that when we finally achive all our goal then the curtain will fall off. Then there would be nothing to hide. Then it will be imposible to lie to ourself, and if we then realise that the all this race, all this hustle all this hard work, all this sacrifice was for nothing, you can imagine what would happen.
I have an example. Club 27. People who achive success, discover that nothing would ever give them freedom or joy because the had everything( fame, money, drugs, girls, cars), there was no space for lie.
So its better to self-sabotage, to never discover that you cant fill the hole you have deep inside you. You can be like Sisyphus. Because if he would finish his work. Then we would realise that this all was for nothing, he would be all the same, but if you cant achive your dream, then at least you are busy chasing your goals so you dont have time to think about your hole.
But it’s not that depprest what it sounds.
You can ask me what about other people who succeed and dont suicide?
So There is a two ways out.
One, i mentioned ealier self-sabotage. Get busy, never achive goal, never realize you live in a lie, it wont free you but it also wont hurt you.
or.
Realize that you can be happy now. Face this painful truth. Decide to no more wound yourslef. Realize that oyu are complete
Regardless of what you achive or where you are, or who you are, what your past look like, what your body look like. You can be happy and at peace.
And then you will stop to running away from feeling empty. You wont want to fill this hole.
But you can ask what’s next?
If i feel happy then why would i do anything?
I cant tell you, thats your answer. Make up you own meaning. This discovery that you can be happy all the time regardless of antyhing is important because now you are free in choice. You dont have to do this or that because you have to. Because you predict that this will make you happy so now you are unhappy doing this thing in the process. Its all it is. Now you can make your own concious choice. You can help others, achive something big, from other reasons. From reason like joy, share with others, evolve whatever you want to call it. Of course you can also sit on pillow all your life if that is the thing you want to do and you dont have to have a reason.
The point is, now you can make your concious desicon what you want to do (not because you think that would make you complete) and you WILL achive it because there will be no point to self-sabotage, because you already know the truth.
Change begins now.
I hope that i light the fire inside you.
Se ja next time.
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